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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 8 2010, 08:28 AM (512 Views) | |
| + Ryebrid | Oct 8 2010, 08:28 AM Post #1 |
 
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Ok guys here's how it goes... I've been recently dumped by my girlfriend. I love her more than anything in the world. The feeling was mutual... One day after the Movies she dumped me when we went for a walk... I felt like dieing... My heart was stomped on... She didnt say why... Nothing bad happened... just one day randomly it happened.... She had been moody for a little while before but nothing to major i geuss... Anyway the point is i think love might be a lie It sounds stupid but really... does true love exist between people? Yes Between some... but for a vast majority it doesnt.... What kind of sick race are we? We fall in love with someone... they mean everything to us... then one day it can all end... people move on... We meet someone different... Fall in love again... they mean everything to us............. so on... Now I've only ever been in a serious relationship once... one where i would do anything to be with her and have her.... I still do want her and to be with her and only her...(The one that left me) Im not stupid. When i feel something great i continue and pursue it. But for most parts... love is a game to majority of people... Everyone strives to much on sex and forgets the rest... Now i know i could say you guys arent like that... but you guys are really only a small amount of billions of people... My heart is disturbed It's unsettled I hate to think like this but i think love is possibly a lie... What really defines love between 2 people like no 2 other people? What is True Love? |
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| + Pelador | Oct 8 2010, 12:39 PM Post #2 |
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Are you telling us the whole story? Or are you holding some information back? Nobody gets dumped for no reason. Unless the girl has a psychological issue. If she really didn't explain anything and just dumped you for no given reason then that's appaling and does not represent the typical actions of a human being. Love is definately real. I see it everywhere. It's very powerful and comes in many different forms. It can also change over time. For example the love my parents have for each other is different to what they felt when they got together, but it's still love. My brother's fiance loves him very much too. It's not a lie at all, it's a real bundle of different emotions which bond people together. Sometimes forever. So what defines love between two people? Well... they can live together for several months without any serious problems. If you can't stand living with somebody then you're not in love. A couple in love will cross mountains to be with each other. If you're not willing to travel to see the person you're supposedly in love with then you're not in love. So what is true love? Well you won't know you're genuinely in love at first. It takes time for real love to grow between two people. There's no such thing as love at first sight. love has to be mutual. It's a bond and it has to grow. |
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| Nusu | Oct 8 2010, 01:01 PM Post #3 |
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I got dumped twice so i know the feeling lol. The one dumped me because i flirt to much with others (i didn´t), and the other one was just a *****, i was about to dump her anyways. My Third one right now, is the most nicest, coolest, metal head girl i´ve ever had. Back to topic. Well, love, love, "exists" i love my girl friend why? cause i do, you can´t describe the feeling without having it, it is exciting, happy, it feels good too, and it is smiliar to a drug, your just manifested to the.. girl or man and if she or he leaves you feel broken, it hurts from not a physical stand point but from a mind like stand point. Be strong dude. Just get back on your feet and someday you find another love. |
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| + Pelador | Oct 8 2010, 01:09 PM Post #4 |
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You're not one of those annoying couples who are always kissing every five seconds are you? Kissing should just be used for foreplay |
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| Rockman | Oct 8 2010, 02:16 PM Post #5 |
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There is always a reason for being dumped. Always. Even if she doesn't tell you. Love takes work. It doesn't just work. Also age is a big factor. It is a known fact that the older the two people are, the less likely they are to split up. Any relationship before college is a joke, and only a few of them turn out to be something real. And only if both people are willing to go through hell to make it work. |
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| Nusu | Oct 8 2010, 02:24 PM Post #6 |
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Lol. Don´t worry, were not that kind of couple we are way to *****ed up to be such a nice couple lol. |
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| * -Zero- | Oct 8 2010, 06:20 PM Post #7 |
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I disagree, I think kissing could be great at anytime As for love being a lie, I don't exactly think it is, if it was a lie people wouldn't feel so helpless after a break up. When someone is broken up with someone they don't love they don't feel that bad they are more like ok, I'll just find someone else, but if love is involved things get hard/complicated |
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| + Pelador | Oct 8 2010, 06:25 PM Post #8 |
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Indeed. I can still remember the pain. I'll probably experience it again one day too since I'm pretty hard to get along with. I think with each relationship we get better at the next one along though. |
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| + Ryebrid | Oct 9 2010, 08:08 AM Post #9 |
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It isnt that there's no reasons... it's that she hasn't told me and that she's made her mind up. I dont want to bother her but i cant not know? Like i said... everything was great the first few months, couldnt be happier. The past month she was on and off feeling really happy then sad and moody, even angry. She never told me anything that was bothering her, especially involving her family. She thinks she's overreacting or acting like a baby, and I've told her she isnt and that she could tell me anything... She still didnt... She just kept bottling up inside and i think since i was closest to her she sometimes took it out on me instead of explaining it to me. I dont blame her for being angry... Her family can be very harsh on her, especially her mum. I hadn't been seeing her the lats month all that much. When we did get together i was overjoyed and happy and wanting to kiss her cause i missed her and get close and all that jazz but she just pushed me away a lot and only let herself kiss me when she felt like it..... I talked to her and said that she kept rejecting me a lot when i wanted to love her and get close cause we didnt do anything like that. Like... you wouldnt even be able to tell that we were going out sometimes. Once she didnt kiss me or get close to me for 1 week and half. Even just standing close to her was to much and she kept saying "i need space" I gave her space and she still didnt want me near her. Then she just flips and practically wants to have sex. I say one thing then she flips again. I renowned myself from speaking then she says why dont you say anything. o.o She said say how i feel about things and dont just agree. I say how i feel about things and she doesnt like it o.o I said: "Look you say for me not to tip toe around things and say how i feel.. yet when i do you dont like it" She said: " Yeah... but... i dont know ok" o.0 It was kind of funny how she contradicted herself a lot but kind of annoying. Anyway point being i only have things to go off, reasons why she did unless i ask her... I dont know if i should It's just that... something happened in that last month... she changed and i dont know why... I know there's different kinds of love But is love really true is you just throw it around so carelessly ? I dont think it is... How can one love someone then leave them and love someone the same way? It isnt right... What you said to her about being the one and about how different the love is with her. "Oh wait no your definitely the one... nah you are actually.... nope i was wrong again im sure this time i love you....wait... yes i love you" Thats kind of sick if you think about it. Love involves lie-ing despite how much we try not to lie to them. |
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| * -Zero- | Oct 9 2010, 08:23 AM Post #10 |
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Love can be real you can mean those things you say, but things change and with them feelings change as well its not unnatural it happens. I believe she owes you the right of an explanation, it is really messed up to just end things and not even say why, so in my opinion she owes you the right to tell you what happened and why she broke up. |
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| + Pelador | Oct 9 2010, 11:30 AM Post #11 |
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She sounds damaged to me. I would stay well clear. You're better off out of it from the sound of it. Talking is the most important part of any relationship. If you can't communicate properly then it's doomed from the start. |
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| master412160 | Oct 9 2010, 05:11 PM Post #12 |
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love can be a lie if you make it so |
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| + Ryebrid | Oct 10 2010, 06:49 AM Post #13 |
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What do you mean by damaged? |
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| + Pelador | Oct 10 2010, 11:57 AM Post #14 |
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Like she has some deep seeded psychological issue. of course I've only got the basic info you gave to make that judgement but still... 
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| + Ryebrid | Oct 12 2010, 04:35 AM Post #15 |
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Oh i understand now. Well.. I've met some weird people... but no one was weirder than me. Now im weird ok and completely random... but she... is like... mega random... That's one thing i love so much about her... We're so alike yet so different =/ I talked to one of my best mates about it. He said if she doesnt have a good enough reason then she just wasnt use to having a relationship like our one. She hasn't been in a serious relationship before me. Our relationship was so god dam good. We really did love each other a lot.... It was such a sudden drop i didnt expect it... We were so right for each other really... Also she's never been in a proper relationship. I dont think she understands that a good relationship involves fighting. Not like over the top but just plain old fighting and disagreeing with each other. I want her back :,( |
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